Subscribe To Our Newsletter! Communication is everything in any relationship and when it comes to good night text messages, you can strengthen or destroy your connection. Keep it simple and straight to the point and you will decrease the risk of miscommunication. And understanding how to express your feelings is also critical when it comes to dating. The number one cause of relationship breakup is not being able to comfortably communicate with your partner, according to Healthy Living experts. Learning tips and tricks to strengthen your relationship skills, gives you the power you need to succeed in love, romance, companionship, or just f-ing around. If you happen to be a shy person one of the worst things you can do is not send a good night message.